My 4 secrets to setting solid boundaries and actually sticking to them
WHEN I WAS 26, SOMETHING SUDDENLY HIT ME… 🤯
“I’ve become a puppet, and everyone else is holding the strings!”
Was my realisation in that moment.
I realised that I felt no sense of connection with who I actually was. I had been living my life for everyone else but myself.
I was confused about my sexuality 🏳️🌈, I had no clue what I even wanted for myself, and I felt completely lost in my identity…
I was under the control and power of others, and DIDN’T FEEL WORTHY ENOUGH TO CLAIM IT BACK.
👉🏼 I was an OVER-GIVER.
I would offer up to give my time and energy to help others, when in fact I felt totally depleted myself…
👉🏼 I was a PEOPLE-PLEASER.
I would say ‘YES’ to every request, when I really wanted to say ’NO’.
👉🏼 I feared setting BOUNDARIES.
Out of GUILT & FEAR that I would be seen as UNKIND or SELFISH.
I just wanted to be liked and ACCEPTED.
Does that sound like you?
I had become so completely absorbed into the needs and expectations of others, that I had no connection to my own needs or self-worth.
If I tried to assert myself, I got gaslighted:
🗣 “I do so much for you and I get nothing in return!”
🗣 “You’re so selfish!”
And so the answer for me was to just do as they wanted, in aim to avoid drama and confrontation.
“It’ll be easier that way…” I told myself.
The truth is that I was always the person that everyone came to for everything, and they didn’t expect me to say ‘no’.
I was very sensitive, and always had a deep sense of empathy.
I even FELT THEIR PAIN SO DEEPLY, that I just wanted to fix it for them… So I focused so much of my attention on them, that I neglected myself. I’d convinced myself that boundaries didn’t work, when in reality, there was no consistency.
So in that moment of realisation, I decided to start asking for help. I was quite literally TIRED of giving up my life for others…
So for years after that, I became a “therapist hopper”… Until I began to realise that no one really had the answers I was looking for.
It was only when I tried and tested various methods of my own to finally break those patterns of over giving and people-pleasing, that it all suddenly began to click…
and it took me 7 YEARS to get there!
In this video training, you will learn the 4 BIG SECRETS that took me 7 years to discover!
These are the secrets that:
Helped me implement SOLID BOUNDARIES CONSISTENTLY, to the point where I finally started seeing some results!
Allowed me to understand and accept who I was, and live in my AUTHENTIC TRUTH. 🏳️🌈
Led me to relationships that FEED MY SOUL 🥰 (and not suck the life out of it!)
Led me to become an independent full-time entrepreneur.💫
Helped rewire my brain 🧠, to STOP FEELING SO GUILTY AND EXHAUSTED ALL THE TIME!
Now allow me to serve others from a full cup.🥛
Helped me live the BALANCED and PURPOSEFUL life I’ve always dreamed of, and value this life that I have been blessed with! ✨